What does “disposition of remains” mean?
The disposition of your remains is what you want done with your body following death. The most common dispositions are burial and cremation.
What happens if you do not have a disposition of remains document?
If you die without having a written document that appoints someone to make decisions about your remains, then your “next of kin” will have the right to control what happens to your body. In Texas “next of kin” means your relative(s) in the following order:
- surviving spouse
- surviving adult children
- surviving adult siblings
In some cases a person’s next of kin may be a group of people, such as a group of adult children or a group of siblings.
What are the benefits to having a disposition of remains document?
The Disposition of Remains document lets you select the person you feel will best carry out your wishes regarding what happens to your body at the time of your death. The person you assign can be a family member, significant other, or a close friend. The document gives you the power to choose a person you trust to follow your wishes. It allows you to remove decision making from a group of people who may have differences of opinion regarding what should happen to your remains.
How do you pick your agent for handling your remains?
Choose carefully and communicate clearly. Your primary agent is your first choice for making decisions. The document allows you to name alternates in the event the primary agent is unable or unwilling to act. It is important to speak with your agents before completing the document to make sure they are comfortable following your wishes. Of course, whomever you choose must be a competent adult—that is, someone at least 18 years old.
Can I change my mind how my remains are handled, or who my agent is?
Yes, your wishes may change over time and that’s OK, because the disposition of final remains is revocable. That means you can change your designee if one becomes unavailable or unwilling to follow your wishes.
When does an Appointment of Agent to Control Disposition of Remains become valid?
The Appointment of Agent to Control Disposition of Remains is not valid until the agents you have named sign and date the last page of the document.
When does this document take effect?
The Appointment of Agent to Control Disposition of Remains becomes effective upon your death.
Does a notary have to be there when my agents sign?
A notary does not have to be present when your agent or agents sign the Appointment of Agent to Control Disposition of Remains.
Do the agents sign at the same time?
It is not necessary for the agents to sign the Appointment of Agent to Control Disposition of Remains at the same time.
NOTE: The information and forms in this guide are not a substitute for the advice and help of a lawyer. It’s a good idea to talk with a lawyer about your particular situation.