Does Your Loved One Have the Skills to Age in Place?


February 20, 2024

Does Your Loved One Have the Skills to Age in Place?

As caregivers, one of our primary concerns is ensuring the comfort and well-being of our loved ones as they navigate the aging process. For many seniors, the desire to remain in their own homes, surrounded by familiarity and cherished memories, is strong. This concept is commonly referred to as “aging in place.”

What is Aging in Place?

Aging in place is the ability to live independently and comfortably in one’s own home or chosen community for as long as possible, even as physical or cognitive abilities change with age. It’s about maintaining a sense of autonomy, dignity, and quality of life in familiar surroundings.

According to a 2022 poll, the vast majority of people over 50 say it’s important that they keep living in their current homes for as long as possible. But a new poll shows many of them haven’t planned or prepared for “aging in place,” and a sizable percentage might have a hard time paying for in-home help. 

Assessing the Skills for Aging in Place

What abilities must your love one’s need to live safely and independently? The healthcare community identifies these activities of daily living (ADLs) as the skills a person needs to care for themself. 

Determining whether your loved one has the necessary skills to age in place involves assessing their ability to perform both Basic Activities of Daily Living (BADLs) and Instrumental Activities of Daily Living (IADLs).

Basic Activities of Daily Living (BADLs)

These activities are essential for maintaining personal hygiene and basic self-care. They include:

  1. Personal Hygiene: Bathing, grooming, oral care, and toileting.
  2. Dressing: Selecting appropriate clothing and dressing oneself.
  3. Mobility: The ability to move independently, whether walking, using mobility aids, or transferring from one surface to another (e.g., bed to chair).
  4. Eating: Preparing meals, feeding oneself, and maintaining proper nutrition.

Instrumental Activities of Daily Living (IADLs)

IADLs are more complex tasks that are necessary for independent living within the community. They include:

  1. Meal Preparation: Planning, shopping for groceries, cooking, and cleaning up after meals.
  2. Housekeeping: Managing household chores such as laundry, cleaning, and maintaining a safe living environment.
  3. Transportation: Driving, using public transportation, or arranging other means of transportation to maintain social engagement and access essential services.
  4. Managing Finances: Handling personal finances, paying bills, and managing budgets.
  5. Medication Management: Organizing and taking medications as prescribed, as well as keeping track of refills and doctor appointments.

Assessing Your Loved One’s Abilities

To determine whether your loved one has the skills to age in place, consider the following:

  1. Observe: Take note of how well your loved one manages daily tasks independently. Are there any difficulties or signs of struggle?
  2. Communicate: Have open and honest conversations about their feelings and concerns regarding aging in place. Ask about any specific challenges they may be facing.
  3. Seek Professional Help: Consider consulting with healthcare professionals or geriatric specialists for a comprehensive assessment of your loved one’s abilities and needs.
  4. Plan Ahead: Develop a care plan that addresses any areas of concern and outlines strategies for supporting your loved one’s independence while ensuring their safety and well-being.


Aging in place can offer many benefits for seniors, including the preservation of independence, autonomy, and a sense of belonging. However, it’s essential to assess your loved one’s abilities honestly and plan accordingly to ensure their comfort and safety as they age. By recognizing their strengths and addressing any areas of need, you can help them maintain their desired lifestyle while receiving the support they require.

Remember, every individual’s journey through aging is unique, and there’s no one-size-fits-all solution. By working together as caregivers and supporting our loved ones with compassion and understanding, we can help them thrive in the place they call home.

Source: Family Caregivers Online; Institute for Healthcare Policy and Innovation National Poll on Healthy Aging conducted by The University of Michigan.

We hope this information is helpful to you in the important work you do as a family caregiver.
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