Karen’s Story – I was both a patient and a caregiver

I think when one becomes a 24/7 caregiver, they mentally move into that space in which only the take-charge dwell. They develop a tunnel vision which enables them to concentrate on the needs of their loved one without allowing the riffraff of everyday life invade that space.

I moved in with my mother and stepfather in 1988 after becoming disabled. Following the death of my stepfather, Mom began going downhill mentally and physically. We managed to do the housework, cooking, cleaning, laundry and all household chores. In January 1998, Mom fell off the bed, breaking her wrist, which was soon followed by a bout of pneumonia, staph infection of the blood and a diagnosis of congestive heart failure. I knew I would have to assume all responsibilities. …Continue reading

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